Ever the Same

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"Ever the Same"
Single by Rob Thomas
from the album ...Something to Be
ReleasedNovember 7, 2005 (2005-11-07)
Length
  • 4:17 (album version)
  • 3:51 (radio edit)
LabelAtlantic
Songwriter(s)Rob Thomas
Producer(s)Matt Serletic
Rob Thomas singles chronology
"This Is How a Heart Breaks"
(2005) 		"Ever the Same"
(2005) 		"...Something to Be"
(2006)

"Ever the Same" is the third single from Matchbox Twenty frontman Rob Thomas's 2005 debut album, ...Something to Be. The song was released on November 7, 2005, and received a gold certification from the Recording Industry Association of America (RIAA). It has been used in commercials for NBA Cares.[1]

Song[edit]

"Ever the Same" is a ballad that Rob Thomas wrote for his wife, Marisol Maldonado.[2][3] For several years, she battled a serious illness that doctors were unable to identify.[2] According to Thomas, Maldonado was "so frustrated by it that she would keep me at bay because she felt she'd be bringing me down."[4] After one particularly painful day, she cried herself to sleep in his arms.[2] He wrote the song, a promise that he would always be there no matter how tough life got, that evening.[2][3] Thomas says that "It all stemmed from the line: 'Just let me hold you while I'm falling apart.'"[4]

The music has a decided 80s music feel. Thomas describes it as appropriate to play in the last five minutes of a John Hughes film.[3]

Music video[edit]

The music video, directed by Phil Harder,[5] features various shots mixed against a drawn and partially colored city background, interspliced with shots of Thomas singing the song. The music video features Wilmer Valderrama. Wilmer's character is a dove keeper who writes messages of hope and attaches them onto the doves legs before allowing them to fly off. As the video progresses, different people all over the city receive these tiny notes. Rob Thomas's wife Marisol is also featured in this video, playing a woman who lives in the apartment adjacent to Rob's. Both Rob and Wilmer look up to see her standing on the edge of her window ledge, presumably thinking about jumping off (most likely in a moment of despair). Wilmer then releases a dove to Marisol, who stops to read the note, smiling and taking seat on the ledge. She eventually jumps off from the ledge, transforming midway into a dove. Rob Thomas, who is out taking his dog for a walk, is sitting on a bench when the dove that once was Marisol lands beside him. He takes the message from its leg and then releases her. The video ends with crowds of people staring up in wonder as Wilmer's flock of doves color the sky and Marisol returning to Wilmer while Rob watches from his window.

Charts[edit]

Sales and certifications[edit]

Region Certification Certified units/sales
United States (RIAA)[17] Gold 500,000^

^ Shipments figures based on certification alone.

Release history[edit]

Region Date Format(s) Label(s) Ref.
United States November 7, 2005
Atlantic [18]
Australia November 14, 2005 CD [19]
United States March 6, 2006 Contemporary hit radio [20]

References[edit]

  1. ^ "ESPN.com - NBA - Twenty Questions for Tenny". www.espn.com. Retrieved 2018-06-11.
  2. ^ a b c d Dyball, Rennie (October 29, 2007), "A Perfect Match", People, retrieved April 26, 2017
  3. ^ a b c Carter, Chelsea (March 9, 2005), "Rob Thomas closes the matchbox, opens solo career", Athens Banner-Herald, Athens, GA, retrieved Apr 26, 2017
  4. ^ a b Cooper, Tim (July 6, 2005), "Rob Thomas: Anonymity in the UK", The Independent, London, retrieved Apr 26, 2017
  5. ^ "SOUND EFFECTS: Harder Fuller Films and Pixel Farm Collaborate on Rob Thomas Hillary Duff Videos". screenmag.com. Retrieved February 22, 2019.[dead link]
  6. ^ "Rob Thomas – Ever the Same". ARIA Top 50 Singles. Retrieved February 3, 2016.
  7. ^ "R&R Canada AC Top 30" (PDF). Radio & Records. No. 1665. July 7, 2006. p. 44. Retrieved April 18, 2024.
  8. ^ "R&R Canada Hot AC Top 30" (PDF). Radio & Records. No. 1641. January 20, 2006. p. 55. Retrieved April 18, 2024.
  9. ^ "Rob Thomas – Ever the Same". Top 40 Singles. Retrieved February 3, 2016.
  10. ^ "Rob Thomas Chart History (Hot 100)". Billboard. Retrieved February 3, 2016.
  11. ^ "Rob Thomas Chart History (Adult Contemporary)". Billboard. Retrieved June 10, 2018.
  12. ^ "Rob Thomas Chart History (Adult Pop Songs)". Billboard. Retrieved March 24, 2015.
  13. ^ "Rob Thomas Chart History (Pop Songs)". Billboard. Retrieved February 3, 2016.
  14. ^ "Pop 100". Billboard. Vol. 118, no. 14. April 8, 2006. p. 64.
  15. ^ "Adult Contemporary Songs – Year-End 2006". Billboard. Retrieved September 20, 2019.
  16. ^ "Adult Pop Songs – Year-End 2006". Billboard. Retrieved September 20, 2019.
  17. ^ "American single certifications – Rob Thomas – Ever the Same". Recording Industry Association of America.
  18. ^ "Going for Adds". Radio & Records. No. 1631. November 4, 2005. p. 22.
  19. ^ "The ARIA Report: New Releases Singles – Week Commencing 14th November 2005" (PDF). ARIA. November 14, 2005. p. 28. Archived from the original (PDF) on February 22, 2008. Retrieved March 6, 2022.
  20. ^ "Going for Adds". Radio & Records. No. 1647. March 3, 2006. p. 47.
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