Give or Take (film)

Give or Take
Directed byPaul Riccio
Produced by
  • Paul Riccio
  • Jamie Effros
  • Angela Malley
  • Kevin Matusow
  • David Kuhn
Starring
Norbert Leo Butz
CinematographyFederico Cantini, ADF
Edited byMike Rizzo
Music byBreanna Barbara
Production
companies
  • Two Hands
  • None Trick Pony
  • Fligsnap Films
  • Traveling Picture Show Company
Distributed by
  • Breaking Glass Pictures (North America)
  • A2 (Latin America)
Release dates
  • July 25, 2020 (2020-07-25) (Woods Hole Film Festival)
  • February 11, 2022 (2022-02-11) (Theatrical)
Running time
103 minutes
CountryUnited States
LanguageEnglish

Give or Take is a 2022 American comedy drama film directed by Paul Riccio. Riccio co-wrote the film with Jamie Effros who starred in a leading role.[1]

Synopsis[edit]

Martin, a pragmatic finance guy living in New York City, thinks he’s checked all the boxes of an acceptable life yet feels disconnected, especially from his father, Kenneth, a distant man Martin could never figure out. Their relationship got more complicated when Kenneth, a retired lawyer living on Cape Cod, came out after his wife died and quickly found love with a younger man, Ted, a local landscaper, who eventually moved in. For the first time Kenneth was able to live openly and honestly as a gay man. When Kenneth unexpectedly dies, Martin heads up to the Cape where he’s forced to finally deal with Ted and a house full of memories. After a few rounds circling and butting heads, Martin and Ted slowly make space for each other and their own grief while reconciling how to remember Kenneth, the different man they both loved, and the significance of what he left behind.[2][3]

Cast[edit]

  • Norbert Leo Butz as Ted
  • Jamie Effros as Martin
  • Joanne Tucker as Emma
  • Cheri Oteri as Patty King
  • Louis Cancelmi as Terrence
  • Annapurna Sriram as Lauren
  • Jaden Waldman as Colin
  • Dennis Cunningham as Ollie
  • Garry Mitchell as Wallace Snow
  • Shaun O’Hagan as Devon
  • Roya Shanks as Melody
  • Kyle Overstreet as Jeff
  • Polly Lee as Pam
  • Chris Fischer as Frank Piersall

Production[edit]

Riccio and Effros wrote the script based upon an idea by Riccio and his own life experiences.[4] The role of Ted was written specifically for Norbert Leo Butz. Production was postponed from the fall of 2018 to the spring of 2019 to accommodate Butz’s commitment to the Broadway revival of My Fair Lady in which he starred as Alfred P. Doolittle.[5] The film was shot almost entirely on Cape Cod in and around the towns of Orleans, Chatham, Eastham and Wellfleet.[1]

Release[edit]

The film premiered at the Woods Hole Film Festival in July 2020. Due to the Covid-19 pandemic, the entire festival was held virtually with films and talks streamed online.[6] It went on to screen at festivals including the virtual Out on Film Festival in September, 2021 and the Provincetown Film Festival on June 16, 2021 at the Wellfleet Drive-In, which was used as a filming location in Give or Take.[7][8][9]

The film was released in select theatres in the United States by Breaking Glass Pictures beginning February 11, 2022.[10] It premiered at the Quad Cinema in New York City, the Laemmle Royal in Los Angeles and the Cape Cinema on Cape Cod before being released as a video on demand (VOD) in North America and Latin America.

Reception[edit]

Critical reception for Give or Take has been positive, and the movie holds a rating of 95% on Rotten Tomatoes based on 29 reviews, with an average rating of 7.3/10.[11]

San Jose Mercury News’ Randy Myers reviewed Give or Take, stating "It’s [Give or Take] a real find that celebrates caring people coming together rather than being torn apart by their differences."[12] Steve Davis of The Austin Chronicle praised Norbert Leo Butz’s performance as “revelatory” while also writing that, “There are just enough authentic moments of one-on-one connections and provincial preciousness in Give or Take to appreciate its unassuming generosity.”[13] Gary Goldstein of the Los Angeles Times described the film as "sincere, often involving” and praised the actors for their "engaging", "skillful", and “robust” performances.[3]

Awards & festivals[edit]

References[edit]

  1. ^ a b Driscoll, Kathi Scrizzi. "Film fest puts spotlight on Cape Cod". Cape Cod Times. Retrieved 2023-01-04.
  2. ^ "'Give or Take' Is a Charming Look at Truth and Grief". A Word With Aramide. Retrieved 2023-01-04.
  3. ^ a b Goldstein, Gary (2022-02-10). "Review: Looking for closure, 'Give or Take' only skims the surface in Cape Cod comedy-drama". Los Angeles Times. Retrieved 2023-01-05.
  4. ^ "Out on Film Announces 2020 Film Festival Lineup". Georgia Voice - Gay & LGBT Atlanta News. Retrieved 2023-01-04.
  5. ^ "Norbert Leo Butz Is Giving an Undeserving Character the Credit He Deserves | TheaterMania". www.theatermania.com. 6 June 2018. Retrieved 2023-01-04.
  6. ^ "In Focus: Woods Hole Film Festival goes virtual - The Boston Globe". BostonGlobe.com. Retrieved 2023-01-05.
  7. ^ "A 2021 Guide To New England's Summer Drive-Ins And Outdoor Movie Pop-Ups". www.wbur.org. Retrieved 2023-01-05.
  8. ^ "Represent!". Provincetown Magazine. 2021-06-09. Retrieved 2023-01-05.
  9. ^ Farmer, Jim. "New Film, 'Give or Take' Explores Gay Themes; Out Performer Plays Central Role in 'The Barber of Seville'". Georgia Voice - Gay & LGBT Atlanta News. Retrieved 2023-01-05.
  10. ^ Rabinowitz, Chloe. "Norbert Leo Butz, Jamie Effros & More Star in GIVE OR TAKE". BroadwayWorld.com. Retrieved 2023-01-05.
  11. ^ Give or Take, retrieved 2023-01-05
  12. ^ "What to watch: 'Adam Project' is 'Back to the Future' fun". The Mercury News. 2022-03-09. Retrieved 2023-01-05.
  13. ^ Davis, Steve (August 17, 2020). "aGLIFF Review: Give or Take". www.austinchronicle.com. Retrieved 2023-01-05.
  14. ^ "2020 Award Winners : FESTIVAL 2023: JULY 29 - AUGUST 5". woodsholefilmfestival.org. Retrieved 2023-01-11.
  15. ^ ""Give or Take:" Winner of Port Townsend Film Festival Best Narrative Feature". Retrieved 2023-01-11.
  16. ^ a b Give or Take - IMDb, retrieved 2023-01-11
  17. ^ "Damn the OMICRON, Full Speed Ahead to See a MovieGIVE OR TAKE Opening February 11 2020– And on DVD & Digital February 22, 2022 – the WORD". hunterword.com. Retrieved 2023-01-11.
  18. ^ "San Diego LGBTQ Film Festival to Screen Mix of Features, Shorts at Balboa Park Museums". Times of San Diego. 2021-09-08. Retrieved 2023-01-11.

External links[edit]

Give or Take at IMDb